this is nothing new to the older generations but like everything – this is quite new to generations growing older.
which is – as we grow older, we start to care less about what others think or say – because we realize that our time on earth is running short and we can’t afford to waste anymore time
this then pushes us to react to people in a different way – a less tolerant way. we have always taken the tolerant path first -put with what we perceived to be people’s BS
but now as we grow older and start to care less and less – we shorten bad interactions and, in fact, end relationships altogether instead of staying nice and tolerant.
this leads to a list developing – of people that perhaps were once friends or acquaintances and now you have cut off
don’t be alarmed – this is normal – it goes hand in hand with the “i don’t care” mentality
if you don’t care and if time is running out – then you will move faster to judgment on human relationships – and a list of ex-friends will develop
accept this side effect to “i don’t care” and move on
the perceived nicest person in the world has a list – believe it