when someone loves you, you need to be very aware of that fact when you are dealing with them on a daily basis. because they love you, they will allow you to be negative towards them without any consequences. this is a gift they have given you and you cannot abuse this gift of unconditional love. and because you have this gift -this freedom to say what you want without consequences –you must be very careful not to abuse it. to abuse this gift is very easy to do. you see no consequences, so you lash out without thinking –and this just causes you to create habits of not being nice –of putting all of your insecurities on this person –in the form of being mean. this person will always love you and will never leave you. this makes the gift of unconditional love even more fragile. handle this gift with care and do not abuse this gift. if you do, then your loved ones will suffer and in the end –so will you. your life will have less meaning and you will be ashamed of your actions over the years. stop abusing this gift now.
we all know that life is a journey. we all know that we ultimately have to take this journey alone–in each of our own minds. this is something we cannot change. the one thing that we can change that will help our lonely journey along is how we act on the outside –what actions do we take? we take action to do the right thing and to provide peace of mind –to know that you have done all that you can do –and that you think it is the right thing to do. this theory is most important when we are talking about family. you must try your hardest to be there for family. you must do what it takes to be with your family in a time of need –when someone is sick or troubled. this will obviously help your family members in their trials –but it will help you even more. to know that you are there for your family in a time of need is one of the greatest feelings in the world. these times that you are there for your family will stand out like shining markers in the long journey of your life. you will know that you did what you needed to do and you will feel more inner peace. this is how you succeed in life–this is how you fulfill your life –this is how you prepare for the end –so that you are ready when your time comes. be there for family and you will know why you are here on earth.