it’s ok to write people off. i know we don’t want to be negative and we want to forgive. but sometimes it is better to write someone off and move on.
we have to follow our beliefs. we have to do what is right for our own self.
when we are young, we try to get along and we want people to like us
but as you get older, you start to see that not everyone likes you – and that is ok
you can’t dwell on why people don’t like you or why your friends are no longer your friends
it is the same when you write someone off – these people no longer fit your idea of a friend or acquaintance
you might have seen another side to them and you don’t like it
so you can keep going along or you can write them off
in reality, they don’t care if you write them off because they will also think about what is best for them – and if you are negative to them – they will write you off too
no one is right or wrong with the writing off process – but we all must continue on in life and we should shed what we perceive to be negative people or influences
it’s a defense mechanism but it is also a way to simplicity and clarity
will you end up all alone if you write everyone off – yes
should you write everyone off – no
use your gut, your instinct, message from god, etc. – to decide who to write off –
Writing off will always happen – it’s inevitable due to human nature
