don’t be sad when they grow up

one of the hardest things in life is to let go of your children and let them fly on their own.  but this is the only way you will be happy and they will be happy.  when another birthday passes and they get older and older, you have a feeling of sadness.  that is ok, that is natural.  but you must not wish to keep them young.  this will only cause heartache.  instead look at how much they have grown and how much your relationship has grown.  it will continue to grow and you will learn to love them more and more each year.  you do not really want to go back in time and re-live the years when they were young and you were younger.  you already did that.  now you will have more fun when they are older and you are older –you will experience more interesting experiences and will be able to become much closer to them.  you will relish these moments more than the one’s in the past.  the older they get, the closer you will become to them –remember this and you will not be sad anymore, you will understand and you will smile.  enjoy the fact that they understand you more and you understand them more.  this is one of the keys to a happier life.  just live it and you will see.